A false image is, of course, a work of art, an idol. And a lie. A narcissist identifies with this image, not his true inner self. So, all he cares about is his image, not what kind of person he really is. Indeed, the latter has no real existence in his world. In identifying with his image, he's identifying with an ephemeral figment that has but virtual reality, a purely immanent existence as a reflection in the attention shone on him by others. No attention, no image. No image, no self! . Kathy Krajco
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The quote above means that a narcissist, to the extent that he is not himself, will give himself entirely over to the image he projects to others. He will put all his attention into this creation, letting it define him. The creation itself, however, has no existence. It's only an image. It is merely another idol.

Source: What Makes Narcissists Tick: Understanding Narcissistic Personality Disorder

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